Lately, I’ve chanced upon a Facebook post addressed to PM
from our young overseas workers in Japan. The letter mainly sheds light on
their struggles and aspirations of the so-called developed country. And also remarks
on the challenges of having to keep up with the exorbitant living standard,
monthly bills, daily expenses and fees, and reimbursement that's due back home.
There is no denying whatever has been detailed in the piece
is unfeigned. After all, it is the reality check that must be conveyed to everyone
willing to work here and suffer the same fate. I suppose it must be consistent
in every economically stable country that life in a fast lane is more than the everyday
photos we see on Facebook. Many off-screen stories remain buried.
Lets get straight to the core that this article doesn't take
umbrage in the opinions shared by our compatriots.
I am a second year postgraduate student in Japan. I don't
moonlight as my time is mostly consumed in the lab. But, I have some friends
who had come here through overseas employment agency, a scheme deemed parallel
to earn and learn program. Whenever time allows, we catch up on weekends to talk
a blue streak about our own experiences here. Of working, studying and living
in a place that is so different form ours. All of us agree to one thing- "there is no time to stand and stare". Yet, we take
pride in the fact that no matter how busy life keeps moving, there is always a
moment to freeze and create a little Bhutan to remain firm with our roots.
While I find it realistic that our young people had broached
up (Facebook post) several points, concomitantly it’s also a high time we give in
our second thoughts and go hell-bent. How far are we going to stretch in life
lodging complains. How far should we cocoon in our comfort zone. Isn’t it time we accept our own choices, keep
embracing the challenges, sharpen our grit and be the game changer?
Honestly, It would not be too much to say we are plain
sailing folks. We take things for granted, wait for the ball to drop, look for
a chance event to become affluent overnight and get lost in fairy tales trance.
This is why it breeds inextricable complacency in us.
Here, be it
schools, universities or any other work place, there are absolutely no grounds
for complacency. They have toughed up to take on every impediments and attuned
to what we often relish to quote- "life is unfair".
On the more, their success story was not conceived overnight. Not even a year or two. Neither its because of few man’s quest to transform this great nation. Centuries of ceaseless hard-works coalesced with seamless recipes like commitment, positive attitude, diligence, planning goals and so on, had gone into placing them on their present pedestal. Their indomitable disposition is the testament to rest of us that we can as well stand tall and basks in the glory of our labour.
On the more, their success story was not conceived overnight. Not even a year or two. Neither its because of few man’s quest to transform this great nation. Centuries of ceaseless hard-works coalesced with seamless recipes like commitment, positive attitude, diligence, planning goals and so on, had gone into placing them on their present pedestal. Their indomitable disposition is the testament to rest of us that we can as well stand tall and basks in the glory of our labour.
Well, now what leaves
us behind the race despite not being any lesser?
It seems plausible
the dearth of aforesaid recipes leave us quite laid-back in our pursuit somehow.
Whatsoever, our pace has begun to pick up double fold. We are writing our own
success stories progressively. So, at this juncture the one and only thing we
must devote vigorously is the will to brave with all our might. Otherwise, we
are already too good to join the biggies.
I have been a witness to my lab members who at times breaks down regardless of fighting with their champion spirits. Should they feel like crying, they do so. But it doesn't finish there. They give a lethal comeback. That is where I have discovered the Japanese secret come in handy. The line seems to be very distinct at this point of time.
My early days were not fairy tales either. I have had my incessant
rounds of frustrations, complains and grievances. On several occasions, it had
me questioned seriously if coming to Japan, as a postgraduate student, was
really my calling. Even now, I admit it candidly that I tussle a lot. But today
I have learned to tussle with Japanese recipes, and since I know it’s there to
wrought me into any finest forms, the way ahead looks clear of odds.
One of my professors shuttles between lab and her apartment
for about 90 miles every weekdays on a bullet train. This is daunting
especially when one has family obligations and huge duties to perform in the
university. I find it astounding she does it with so much grace that there is a
perfect harmony. So, every time it exhausts me to travel 10-15 minutes by
bicycle from home to lab, I become guilt ridden thinking of my Prof, who even
with vast arrays of responsibilities manages to make smooth transitions between
professional and personal life. I find myself little embarrassing on my part to
play truant.
My hexagenerian house owner, for example, is always up by
the break of dawn for her day’s chore. I can see the couples are sufficiently
well established with substantial income coming from the monthly rent and post
retirement benefits. And by her age, back home, it would be a good respite in
her life. But she is unstoppable in her works. Ever lively, she just can’t be underrated
because of her old age. Here again, what a clean and neat way of ridding
excessive feeling of smugness. Recall the Japanese recipes scribbled somewhere.
If at the prime of our lives, we take refuge in dodging away
from the bitter truth of modern times, where’s the sense in that?
And if there is one great take away lesson I’ve learned the
hard way, it must be this- there is no
free lunch in life.
