March 21, 2013
March 17, 2013
Zhemgang in lens
Zhemgang
and ‘remote’ has become synonyms for
many Bhutanese. As soon as people think about Zhemgang, a scene of forested
area and isolated place themes their mind. In fact, it is one of the promising
places where a lot can retreat and enjoy the tranquility of the breath taking
scenes, which ultimately will peace your mind.
Zhemgang earlier and
now has the change of sky and earth. Earlier, people paddled for transportation
and communication. As of now, the place has witnessed unprecedented development
and life has become much comfortable.
The place is moderately
populated with linear and scattered settlements. Initially, the indigenous
architect dominated the design of the houses. However, with the advent of buildings,
houses suspended and dyed with exotic phallus, are losing its place and are gradually
substituted by cemented buildings. Since the place is adequately peopled, not
much of pollution and social disturbances are produced. It looks neat and tidy
with lush green environment.
Time heals everything
“Time will heal……..” it
reminded me of something and I agree with it blindly.
As a school goer, I was enthralled and caught in lurking web of love. I have been jilted badly and bad
mouthed several times. I was even thrashed at times. Despite repeated failures,
I kept trying and few earned me successful stories. It was a puppy love
characterized by blushing at the sight of seeing; stealing a glimpse of looks
and sending well festooned letters via postman. Initially, with secret soft corner in heart, love intensifies often disturbing the sound state of mind. May be it is the symptom
of what many people call “love sick”. This is the charm of amateur lovers.
As it ripens, more of caring and trust blooms, bandaging the bond strongly. Sometimes out of closeness, problems ignite out which results in temporary break ups. By compromise and consoling through friends, a usual tie up follows its way like nothing has befallen. Asking for a walk and date needed herculean guts because of the fear of getting negated. I vividly remember going out with my girlfriend on one of the rainy days. It was like we were competing for walk race. Forget about holding hands, we even could not utter a word and I felt so embarrassed for the first time.
The attachment ascends
with each passing day. An absence would mean a lot and cause mental trauma. The day wasn't cherished without pilfering a sight of each other.
Moreover, i sounded better on phone. I could confess everything. Frequent lovers tiff was
part of our rapport and it perpetuated till we permanently broke up. It fills
me up with laughter when I resuscitate those moments. I found myself well
versed in writing love letters by the end of high school.
The delicious part of Love
happens in college. Love at this level is entirely different. We mature biologically
and instinctively. By then, some would have already
planned for cohabiting and are husband and wife in the making. The big question
is what if the relationship collapses before the promises are fulfilled. It
will scar only those who have truly loved from deep within. I admit that it
takes tough time to forgo the nightmare and nurse the unseen wound. It is hard
to endure the pain in love. Someone rightly said that it takes only few hours
to love somebody and lifetime to forget them.
However, with every new
days unfolding, life has in store different tales for every one of us. Every
morning, rays of hope are ushered to move on with new beginning. Subsequently, the
wound slowly recuperates, scar vanishes and memories faint away with wind of
time only to be recalled someday. Life is beautiful, yet one can never be
satisfied. It’s always wise to be optimistic rather than to blame for others
shortcoming. Everything happens for good cause. Don’t repent over past, for it
is gone with yesterdays. Dwell in present and time will heal everything.